no matter how upset you are with a friend or a family member, forgive. don’t point fingers, it doesnt matter who did what or who is doing what, let it go. it is not worth it. it shouldnt take such a dramatic event, such as death or whathaveyou, to bring you back together again, especially since it may be the death of that one person and then you will never have the chance. it’s not worth it. be there for one another, everyone deserves a little common decency, at least.i wish it wouldnt take so much for people to forgive others, people expect the drama from films they have seen or songs they have heard. it doesnt need to be like that. i wish people would realize that everyone needs a hug every once in a while.
That is one simple truth.
Like I said my friend Sarah’s aunt and uncle were murdered a week or so ago. And I thought about all my family members, even the ones I have issues with and I can’t even comprehend to loose them that way.
Recently a friend of a friend’s mom (who’s about the same age as my parents) had a stroke, but is expected to recover.
This kind of things just put my problems (which are for the most part miniscule) in to perspective.
I have a few problems with how my dad’s sister chooses to live her life, but she’s still family, I still care about her. That’s why I get so frustrated with her for not taking responsibility for anything in her life, even at 50. I love her and if anything were to happen to her, I would be upset and confused…
Her boyfriend/fiance/creep on the other hand…